I'm debating who to tell, or whether to tell anyone.
One of the things I dread is that confessing our financial state will allow a friend or two to feel like they can give their take on it. I don't want to have to explain everything. I don't want to have to be convinced not to do this.
At the same time it's all I've been thinking about recently. I've been making lists in my head, trying out scenarios, and figuring out what to do after all this is said and done. It would be nice to have someone to talk to other than my husband and my mother.